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Theme Planning - How to make a party a special event


You should have a theme for an evening to give a focus to all of your activities, promotions, decorations and even menu.

Pick a Theme
It might be from a song (Some enchanted evening, Unforgettable, The Way We Were). It might be from a movie or a show (Casablanca, Camelot, Carousel, Phantom of the Opera, Fantasia). It may be from a story or an event (e.g. Oscar night). It may be from a TV show (Love Boat, Friends). It may be a geographical location (Ancient Rome, Paris, New York, Egypt, Tropical paradise, Caribbean Adventure).

Invitations
Your invitations should convey the theme of the evening by a good strong graphic and choice of font to fit with the theme. Bud Gowan’s will print tickets free of charge and they have thousands of graphics on computer to choose from. Or take a sample with you.

Colours
Each theme suggests different colours to go with it. For example, Phantom of the Opera would be black and white and red. Carousel would suggest red, yellow and blue, primary colours. Tropical paradise might be orange, turquoise and hot pink. 2001 Space Odyssey might be silver, gold and black. A royal theme might be purple and gold. Try picking three colours at the most to use consistently in advertising, invitations, and decorations.

Creating the Mood
You create the mood by appealing to the 5 senses - sight, touch, smell, sound and taste. Consider how you might convey your theme in all these areas. For example a love boat theme…. sound track of waves and horn blowing as the evening begins, a captain dressed in uniform to greet them, paper streamers at the door for departure, fresh tropical fruit as appetizers, fan for gentle breezes. Or a Hollywood theme…background applause noises, camera bulbs flashing, your own sidewalk of fame etc.

The first half-hour especially should appeal to all these senses. But think of creative ways to carry it through the evening. That first twenty minutes is very important as it is also the most awkward time. Think of activities related to your theme to get people involved so they aren’t standing around staring at each other looking uncomfortable. Appetizers are very helpful in the event that some have chosen to drink prior to the event, as some food in their stomachs will help slow the alcohol absorption. They can be simple and not terribly filling, just enough to get some food into people.

Decorations
Consider if there is to be a focal point for your theme. An Egyptian theme might create a pyramid in the middle of the room. A Parisienne theme might recreate a French café in a corner. Casablanca might have some old wooden shutters and plants and mosquito netting. Carry your colour theme through on the tables. Many schools use balloons effectively. Make sure your centerpiece is either low enough to see over or high enough to see under. A mirrored square (available at building supply stores relatively cheap in packages of 8) helps reflect candlelight well especially with little votive candles. Consider the various metallic confetti available at That Party Place and other party stores…stars for an astronomy theme, hearts for the Love Boat, fish for a tropical theme. Vary your colours of serviettes with alternating colours…e.g. black and gold for an ancient Rome theme.

Events or Activities
Throughout the evening tie a variety of activities to your theme to keep interest up. Ask your DJ for some creative suggestions. With a Caribbean theme, have a limbo contest during the dance. Present those plastic Hawaiian necklaces as prizes for awards. During an Atlantis theme for joke awards, present the Dead fish awards.

Tie a slide show into your theme to play in the middle of the dance tied together with the theme music…like “The way we were” could show pictures of events throughout your years, even include baby pictures. Or “A night under the stars” could alternate star pictures with pictures of Grads and teachers”.

Materials and Props
Contact your high school drama department first. Ask the drama teacher if they might know of a school who has done a play recently related to your theme that may have some props you can borrow. Or try the Grand or Talbot Theatres, Huron County Playhouse, London Community Players, or local theatre groups for props and costumes. Garage sales and Value Village are invaluable resources of cheap props. Communicate to your parents what you are looking for, or ask for donations in your grad newsletter or school newsletter.

Plan Ahead!
Talk to your location for prom and ask for their input and possible restrictions. Measure your space as one school built a wonderful prop but couldn’t get it in the door of their location when the day came! Who is going to set these things up and how soon can you get in that day? More importantly, who is going to take them down…a great time to enlist parents’ help. Definitely plan ahead for this one!

Get People Involved
Do you want to get your teachers involved in an interesting and fun way? One school who did A Night in King Arthur’s Court theme dressed their teachers up in medieval costumes from the Grand Theatre and they escorted them into the ball and later presented the awards. A jester outfit might be perfect for one of the teachers. Or a movie awards theme may use your teachers as reporters dressed up with cameras and notepads and fedoras.



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